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Dear bush_cheney2004,

I agree that there are no absolutes, but argue that 'race' was originally moreso defined by past environments than recent 'social constructs', for good or ill. What rankled me from the original question was the notion of applying the qualifiers 'good or bad' to race, or racial mixing. it is neither good nor bad, it just is. Until, of course, someone suggests an 'end goal', in which case racial mixing would then be looked at as 'beneficial', or 'detrimental', to that goal.

Ok...but we know from experience with other species and sub-species that "race" is really just the absence of genetic diversity. Environment certainly cements the deal. Not unexpectedly, the Human Genome Project confirms this for humans. I agree that judgements for "good" or "bad" are really framed by the "end goal" of such thinking. Loaded terms like "race mixing" are in and of themselves quite judgemental; turns out that "hybrid vigor" is a good thing.

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Ok...but we know from experience with other species and sub-species that "race" is really just the absence of genetic diversity. Environment certainly cements the deal. Not unexpectedly, the Human Genome Project confirms this for humans. I agree that judgements for "good" or "bad" are really framed by the "end goal" of such thinking. Loaded terms like "race mixing" are in and of themselves quite judgemental; turns out that "hybrid vigor" is a good thing.

We certainly need more vigor. Mutts are much better...nothing more wacky than a pony bred with a close relative - in ancient times the Egyptians would inbreed brother and sister in order to create a Horace - or a god-human..it worked some of the time and amazing humans were created..much like the inbreeding of fine race horses - the closer related the more powerful and swift high level bio-machine would be created - UNTIL..the inbreeding was taken to far and a negative small sculled retarded creature would be produced - and instead of a human-god you got createn...IF were were to mix the races in order to create a super race - there would be one ulitimate end product....that would be the temptation to go even higher in quality and start instead of continued cross breeding to eventual inbreeding - best to let nature take it's course and best to let those that fall in love breed - those that breed for anyother reason should not be restricted from breeding - power marriages should be outlawed - offspring from such arrangements always end up over privledged and abusive.....so get to it kids - get your self a Philipino maid and boink her - just don't tell the wife.

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Lot of folks have preconceived notions of who and what they wish to date. Women make up their minds and look for certain personality traits and physical characteristics for dating, mating and marrying. Here are some traits:

1) Men have to have some personality otherwise they only become "friend" material

2) Ambition - knows what he wants and how to get there

3) Intelligent

4) Sense of humor, can also laugh

5) Good conversation

7) etc. etc.

6) Tall, strong, dark, handsome etc.

Men are less choosy in their selection for dating (means sex)

1) Anything in skirts works for dating (well according your response from this thread)

2) For marrying I think men are very choosy (demur but fanciful in bed and ideally blonde)

However in reality, even though you have your list of requirements for a mate, I don't think you can dismiss that that you can become attracted to unlikely potential. So it is how open you are to other cultures, and your biases, your threshold for tolerance etc. your life experiences

Inter-racial dating is more acceptable in society now, the common relations are:

1) white women with black men

2) white men with asian women

You don't see much of Asian men with white women or black women with white men and some person probably already have the explanation why.

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I'm willing to travel the globe and help prevent inbreeding amongst the races.

I'd help...but my wife would probably notice.

:lol::lol:

Anglo Saxons are so inbreed to the point that they are also now of inferiour qualtity - and the Jews that are not smart enough to instill some genetic refreshment into the race or so-called religion are suffering also - because of religious elitist traditions the Jews have breed themselves into stupidity.

Wow...you really come up with some misinformed comments. Sort of reminds me of phrenology...that 'science' so popular at one time.

http://www.jinfo.org/Nobel_Prizes.html

You don't see much of Asian men with white women or black women with white men and some person probably already have the explanation why.

I don't have an answer...other than that Beyonce is super hot...and so is Scarlett Johannsen. But one can look at pornography...errrrr....look at the adult entertainment business and see that certain 'races' of women and men are common in the business while others are near non-existent. It speaks out about 'race relations' in a way that some poll could never do...

Perhaps an exaggeration of real life???

:rolleyes::lol::lol:

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But one can look at pornography...errrrr....look at the adult entertainment business and see that certain 'races' of women and men are common in the business while others are near non-existent. It speaks out about 'race relations' in a way that some poll could never do...

Perhaps an exaggeration of real life???

:rolleyes::lol::lol:

Well in that case it's about time the entertainment business introduce some new imagery, no... 'cause I don't know how else I am going to become educated enough to make the call of judgment as to who should date whom and also marry.

Anyway, what kinds of people are we talking about with this inter-racial dating. I keep thinking its only white, black and asian...who else were we concern about entering into some various gene pool.

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Anyway, what kinds of people are we talking about with this inter-racial dating. I keep thinking its only white, black and asian...who else were we concern about entering into some various gene pool.

I doubt is really even an issue in terms of nature (drive to reproduce et al). DIfferences tend to be cultural more than anything physical. As hinted at, it'd be hard to choose between Beyonce, Scarlett...Gajini Asin or any number of beautiful women from around the planet. That's why I mentioned the adult entertainment industry as it is non-PC for the most part and makes money by being right about what people (not just men) like in these terms...not about being wrong.

Simply that...

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That's why I mentioned the adult entertainment industry as it is non-PC for the most part and makes money by being right about what people (not just men) like in these terms...not about being wrong.

I see what you mean about the adult industry. The porn industry, entertainment clubs is for men mostly. Women are paid but are also exploited. But not to hijack this thread.

The percent of beautiful women around the world is less than 1%. I don't think that Beyonce is a good representation of what men see in say "black" women hence would go off shagging black women. I would be shocked if someone offer some evidence to suggest otherwise.

On the other hand "white" women are desirable by any race males even when the women are overwhelmingly lacking characteristics found in desirable in "other" races. Hence, some women don't have to worry, they are never short of mates to date, mate, marry. Well, I should also clarify the women should also be in their prime. I don't have the divorce statistics for these folks, say if they are over 40.

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The percent of beautiful women around the world is less than 1%.

....yeah if you're gay. I mean, it's like vegetarians commenting of the tastiness of meat. If you Eliminate the very old and the very young, the disabled and the intellectually feeble, the percentage is exactly 92.134%

I know. My name is Morris Dancer and I've done the research.

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....yeah if you're gay. I mean, it's like vegetarians commenting of the tastiness of meat. If you Eliminate the very old and the very young, the disabled and the intellectually feeble, the percentage is exactly 92.134%

I know. My name is Morris Dancer and I've done the research.

OK, so you wish to credit the masses and yourself that all persons are beautiful. Sure, there is inner beauty and everyone is beautiful.

However, there were some particular names mentioned in terms of beauty Beyonce, Scarlett hence it sets a pattern of standard for comparison. Indeed if every person were beautiful they would be living their dreams, waist-to-hip ratio of approximately 0.70, slender etc. what men find attractive in women. 92.134% women are dis-satisfied with their appearance and purchasing all sorts of beauty products to look like these

Jean Harlow

Audrey Hepburn

Marilyn Monroe

Angelina Jolie

Julia Stiles

Patricia Arquette

Mary Pickford

Sharon Tate

Stacy Kiebler

Trish Stratus

Claudia Cardinale

Lucy Liu

Catherine Zeta Jones

Grace Kelly

Nicole Kidman

Lana Turner

Halle Berry

Charlize Theron

Gwen Stefani

Alyssa Milano

Rose McGowan

Greta Garbo

Eliza Dushku

Uma Thurman

Faye Dunaway

Hedy Lamarr

Leslie Caron

Claudette Colbert

Myrna Loy

Jennifer Jones

Fay Wray

Jewel Kilcher

Rebecca Romijn Stamos

Anna Kournikova

Daryl Hannah

Salma Hayek

Norma Talmadge

Torrie Wilson

Cameron Diaz

Jennifer Lopez

Kelly Monaco

Elizabeth Montgomery

Christina Aguilera

Shakira

Natalie Portman

Vivien Leigh

Alexis Thorpe

Reese Witherspoon

Natalie Wood

Lauren Bacall

Rita Hayworth

Ida Lupino

Arianne Zuker

Julie Newmar

Cindy Crawford

Jana Speaker

Angela Dodson

Gia Carangi

Brooke Shields

Ingrid Bergman

Nargis Dutt

Madhuri Dixit

Sarah Michelle Gellar

Angelica Lee

Kajol Devgan

Gwyneth Paltrow

Geri Halliwell

Victoria Beckham

Tara Reid

Rachael Leigh Cook

Edna Purviance

Carole Lombard

Virginia Cherrill

Jessica Biel

Joan Blondell

Linda Darnell

Rebecka Liljeberg

Katie Holmes

Michelle Pfeiffer

Heather Graham

Eva Marie Saint

Julianne Moore

Elisabeth Hasselbeck

Jenny Mccarthy

Debbie Reynolds

Fiona Apple

James King

Shannon Elizabeth

Katherine Hepburn

Elisha Cuthbert

Ursula Andress

Selma Blair

Christina Applegate

Alexis Bledel

Nanako Matsushima

Miki Nakatani

Ji-hyun Jun

Kate Winslet

Jennifer Garner

Natassia Malthe

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However, there were some particular names mentioned in terms of beauty Beyonce, Scarlett hence it sets a pattern of standard for comparison.

That's not exactly true. If any guy goes expecting all women to be like Beyonce, they aren't going to be very successful.

I'm sure you find some men attractive that aren't on par with Brad Pitt or George Clooney.

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I don't think that Beyonce is a good representation of what men see in say "black" women hence would go off shagging black women. I would be shocked if someone offer some evidence to suggest otherwise.

Well...back a few years...ahem...I had a thing for Lauryn Hill and Grace Jones...does that count??

:lol::lol:

I know. My name is Morris Dancer and I've done the research.

:lol:

That's not exactly true. If any guy goes expecting all women to be like Beyonce, they aren't going to be very successful.

Heh....I know. I have this one single friend still holding out for Jessica Simpson. Or is it Jessica Alba? Either would give him a heart-attack, I'm sure. Plus, she has to cook like his mother...

On the other hand "white" women are desirable by any race males...

Thus the old internet joke that the porn industry owes its' existence to young, rich, oppressed Arab males. The rest download it for free.

:huh::lol:

92.134% women are dis-satisfied with their appearance and purchasing all sorts of beauty products to look like these...(list follows)

Oooooooooo....ain't that the truth. Sums up today's visit to the mall.

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OK, so you wish to credit the masses and yourself that all persons are beautiful. Sure, there is inner beauty and everyone is beautiful.

However, there were some particular names mentioned in terms of beauty Beyonce, Scarlett hence it sets a pattern of standard for comparison. Indeed if every person were beautiful they would be living their dreams, waist-to-hip ratio of approximately 0.70, slender etc. what men find attractive in women. 92.134% women are dis-satisfied with their appearance and purchasing all sorts of beauty products to look like these

Jean Harlow

Audrey Hepburn

Marilyn Monroe

Angelina Jolie

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Geez, sometimes I get a strong reminder that I grew up in a different time! Then again, my tastes have never been mainstream. The majority of women on this list do nothing for me.

Where's Loni Anderson? Where's Mae West? I've always liked my women curvy AND smart!

Many of the women on this list have about as much appeal as something inflatable...IMHO.

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OK, so you wish to credit the masses and yourself that all persons are beautiful. Sure, there is inner beauty and everyone is beautiful.

However, there were some particular names mentioned in terms of beauty Beyonce, Scarlett hence it sets a pattern of standard for comparison. Indeed if every person were beautiful they would be living their dreams, waist-to-hip ratio of approximately 0.70, slender etc. what men find attractive in women. 92.134% women are dis-satisfied with their appearance and purchasing all sorts of beauty products to look like these

Jean Harlow

Audrey Hepburn

Marilyn Monroe .....

There's this website that has pic of most of those women without make-up or flattering lighting.....Monroe was prone to blotchy skin and bloating. Hannah can look like an awful fright...

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I'm sure you find some men attractive that aren't on par with Brad Pitt or George Clooney.

Well, George Clooney is a damn sexy man.

I am a bit hard to please to say the least. But thats probably because I always thought this love deal should come as a surprise however pleasant or unpleasant it might be. I mean what is the point of "love is blind" colorless, if we are going to keep a list of eligible men and arrange love ourselves. The only category that different race will be filed under is: 1) Friend and Hang-out. A reason why there is less inter-racial decisions for dating?

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The only category that different race will be filed under is: 1) Friend and Hang-out. A reason why there is less inter-racial decisions for dating?

Over the years of my singleness I had 5 jewish lovers, one japanese, one korean, one black, one native canadian, one tamil, one pakistani...and a few dozen europeans.....

The reason there were fewer interracial lovers was opportunity, or the lack there of. And as long as minorities stay minorities, the opportunities will stay lowered.

...now had I lived for a spell in Tokyo or Hydrabad, the tally might have been different.

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Over the years of my singleness I had 5 jewish lovers, one japanese, one korean, one black, one native canadian, one tamil, one pakistani...and a few dozen europeans.....

The reason there were fewer interracial lovers was opportunity, or the lack there of. And as long as minorities stay minorities, the opportunities will stay lowered.

...now had I lived for a spell in Tokyo or Hydrabad, the tally might have been different.

How much sex we’re having You'd fall into the 29% category, it is a US survey. I don't know how much the weather affects having sex in Canada.

Black men and women were more likely to report having 15 or more partners in a lifetime than other racial or ethnic groups.

Most statistics point to men having sex with about 20 different women in a lifetime and women having sex with 6 different men in their lifetime. (different cultures for sex - probably if the opportunity is presented as you say), there is certainly not this much inter-racial marriages resulting from this exchange of sex.

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Then how can your brother in law be married to a Japanese Swiss woman?

Or did you mean x-brother in law?

Simple. My wife's brother (who is my brother in law) is married to a swiss born japanese woman. She is my sister in law. Now of course, his mother in law is a canadian born Japanese woman and his father in law is a japanese born Canadian....

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Where's Loni Anderson?

(circa 1967)

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It was almost as if they were...organized!!

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