There was a time, back when I was about 23 or 24, I had been to college and found employment in the field of my training. But after about 5 years of working I still didn't have a car and it seemed that I was living paycheck to paycheck and not getting anywhere. I was basically just showing up for work and collecting a paycheck and had started to lose interest in the industry I had trained for. I was doing a lot of complaining back then, similar to Kimmy, as I felt things weren't happening fast enough for me and that life somehow wasn't fair. I was blaming everyone and anything, but mostly the government. At one point, a co-worker, who had grown tired of my complaining, let me have it. He basically laid things out but the main message was that the "government" nor anyone else owed me nothing, certainly not a life. At first I was insulted, and angry. But then I decided I was going to get somewhere in life, with or without, anyone else's help. I started to pay attention at work and started to learn instead of just "doing". Within a year my bosses had started to give me more complicated work and had started to talk promotion. But I had already been searching for work elsewhere, and when I started to move around, things started to get better. I have since started my own business and, while I would certainly not be considered "wealthy", I have done alright and have a pretty comfortable living. And guess what....I'm still working my ass off to maintain what I have, but have retirement in the near future. Sorry, not sorry, Kimmy that you will have to work your own ass off to get what you want in life.....nobody owes you anything.