Yzermandius19 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) 6 minutes ago, PPC2019 said: Nah... I don't don't like beeing creepy. I like being strategic. Wearing a mask is creepy, not strategic. Confidence is strategic, if you need a mask to be confident, that's not real confidence. Edited November 13, 2019 by Yzermandius19 Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 I just discovered this one. Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 1 minute ago, Yzermandius19 said: Confidence is strategic. Pursuant to that, you just lean in and give them a gentle kiss to end the first night. Then walk away Second date; they jump you at the end of the night, like a jungle cat. Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) 3 minutes ago, Yzermandius19 said: Wearing a mask is creepy, not strategic. Confidence is strategic, if you need a mask to be confident, that's not real confidence. You have everyone wear masks, and things get a little dicey.... Without them.... it's usually just people dancing shoulder to shoulder. It helps the entire crowed take some risks. Edited November 13, 2019 by PPC2019 Quote
Yzermandius19 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) 1 minute ago, PPC2019 said: You have everyone wear masks, and things get a little dicey.... Without them.... it's usually just people dancing shoulder to shoulder. Millenials lack confidence, and need to hide behind safe spaces to compensate, who knew? Edited November 13, 2019 by Yzermandius19 Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 I don't care if it's cheating.... if it works. Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 Another strategy of mine was to never treat a girl badly, even if just a date, I treated them as if they were my best girl for the duration of that date. Even for short term, I always showed them a good time, treated them like a lady, made sure they had fun. I've had girls tell me that they only slept with me, because they had talked to other girls who said I was a sweet guy. Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 1 minute ago, Dougie93 said: Another strategy of mine was to never treat a girl badly, even if just a date, I treated them as if they were my best girl for the duration of that date. Even for short term, I always showed them a good time, treated them like a lady, made sure they had fun. I've had girls tell me that they only slept with me, because they had talked to other girls who said I was a sweet guy. That works for the long term, but when you're at a club and are on a strict time limit... you don't want to wasting half your time picking up girl.... you want to be enjoying the music... Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 Halloween is a time, when girls like to dressup like sluts, and experiment... It sets the deck in your favor. It's only once a year, and most people don't take advantage of it. Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 1 minute ago, PPC2019 said: That works for the long term, but when you're at a club and are on a strict time limit... you don't want to wasting half your time picking up girl.... you want to be enjoying the music... I could enjoy myself at a club without picking up, I was cute enough to always find dance partners, but a lot a nights I just walked away at the end, "thanks, I'll see ya around" Later, those same girls would come up to me at clubs and be all "hey you, remember me?" so I would hook that on the second pass. Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 1 minute ago, Dougie93 said: I could enjoy myself at a club without picking up, I was cute enough to always find dance partners, but a lot a nights I just walked away at the end, "thanks, I'll see ya around" Later, those same girls would come up to me at clubs and be all "hey you, remember me?" so I would hook that on the second pass. I love when that happens. I would meet a girl at the Guvernment... and she bee like we went to the same high school.... Then you were guaranteed a good night. Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 Just now, PPC2019 said: I love when that happens. I would meet a girl at the Guvernment... and she bee like we went to the same high school.... Then you were guaranteed a good night. Yeah, I loved it just to have club girls as friends, just to hang out with, to have a girl with you at the club, but not for sex, just for company. Then those girls would set you up with their friends. Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 It's a funny a guy who uses to hate me.... was partying at one of my surprise parties and didn't even know it. He was super critical of me.... and then his jaw dropped when he found out I was the DJ... It was nice rubbing it in. Quote
Yzermandius19 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 Why waste time going after girls whose face you can't even see? Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) I've hald a mild stroke a few years back, so I haven't gone clubbing since. Sometimes my vision goes haywire and I see giant blue floaters strobbing in my eyes. Right now the room looks a little more yellow than normal, and a migraine it coming on. I can't really sleep around like I use too. It has to be when i'm not flaring up, or I'll get very light headed. Edited November 13, 2019 by PPC2019 Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 You activate certain parts of your brain when your chasing a girl... The intense concentration, makes me very light headed. Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) 9 minutes ago, PPC2019 said: It's a funny a guy who uses to hate me.... was partying at one of my surprise parties and didn't even know it. He was super critical of me.... and then his jaw dropped when he found out I was the DJ... It was nice rubbing it in. I definitely got in more than my fair share of fights. Sometimes I just went to the bars to fight. I would just wait until some guy assumed he was in my league, then I would buckle him Sometimes it would be a melee where there were multiples and I had to fight my way out of the box. Sometimes you have to blow off some army aggression at some guy who is asking for it. Edited November 13, 2019 by Dougie93 Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) Like I had no male friends other than my army buddies. I was only interested in civilian girls. Civilian guys I had contempt for. I liked spending time with girls, no interest in hanging out with civvie dudes, I just wanted to buckle them. The male aggression in the infantry is off the charts Edited November 13, 2019 by Dougie93 Quote
Yzermandius19 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) 5 minutes ago, Dougie93 said: no interest in hanging out with civvie dudes, I just wanted to crush them. No shortage of civvie dudes who could use a good crushing, that's for sure. Edited November 13, 2019 by Yzermandius19 Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 Just now, Yzermandius19 said: No shortage of civvie dudes who could use a good crushing, that's for sure. They always walked into it, because I didn't look like a monster, I was dressed for success with girls, I was cute and clean and I smelled good. So these clowns would think I was an easy mark, they were the ones trying to bully me, the "pretty boy", so my conscience was clear, they hung themselves Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 Like off duty, you never would have thought I was in the army, I look like a Redneck now, but back then I was a club fiend, so I wasn't rocking the army look off duty. Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 (edited) 10 minutes ago, Dougie93 said: They always walked into it, because I didn't look like a monster, I was dressed for success with girls, I was cute and clean and I smelled good. So these clowns would think I was an easy mark, they were the ones trying to bully me, the "pretty boy", so my conscience was clear, they hung themselves Dating Sites are the worst... but a site like this... you could pick up with you sneaky.... You go in stealth on a BDSM forums.... Find complete nymphos in your area... than everything is set up for you. You have a girl who owns all her own equipment... You don't have to spend a dime. Edited November 13, 2019 by PPC2019 Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 2 minutes ago, PPC2019 said: Dating Sites are the worst... but a site like this... you could pick up with you sneaky.... You go in stealth on a BDSM forums.... Find complete nymphos in your area... than everything is set up for you. You have a girl who owns all her own equipment... You don't have to spend a dime. I got out of the whole club scene when I started dating my steady girlfriend in Petawawa, she was such a doll, I had no reason to go back to Toronto anymore. After we broke up, it wasn't too long after that I met my wife. So I was super steady girlfriend, then happily married, my clubbing days are so long ago now. I look at pictures of myself then, and he is just a boy. He is cute, but he looks like a teenager to me now. I am the monster now, grizzled, weather beaten, scarred, my wife is all I am interested in now, beauty and the beast. Quote
Guest PPC2019 Posted November 13, 2019 Report Posted November 13, 2019 Do ya live near the Ottawa right? How do you enjoy the Canadian shield. I hate not having big forests around me... If I was up north, i'd be snowmobiling now. Quote
Dougie93 Posted November 13, 2019 Author Report Posted November 13, 2019 2 minutes ago, PPC2019 said: Do ya live near the Ottawa right? How do you enjoy the Canadian shield. I hate not having big forests around me... If I was up north, i'd be snowmobiling now. Not anymore. I live in Wellington County. I'm not a club fiend anymore, I'm a Redneck now. But I am Gen X, we never had any musical tribes, we were all over the place, so I like every type of music, from Country & Western to Trap and Trance. Quote
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