Mighty AC Posted September 5, 2014 Report Posted September 5, 2014 People with Down Syndrome don't usually live with much more pain/suffering (other than social isolation) than the average person so why abort them? A pain in the ass for the parents but is having a major inconvenience a good excuse to deny someone the right to live? I don't know. Do you think everyone is capable, mentally and financially, of caring for a child with some very challenging and special needs? Quote "Our lives begin to end the day we stay silent about the things that matter." - Martin Luther King Jr"Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities" - Voltaire
-1=e^ipi Posted September 5, 2014 Report Posted September 5, 2014 At some point my wife and I will either be too old, or too dead, to respond to our sons' needs. So by 'normal life' you mean 'independent'? That's the biggie. I think you are over worrying. There are lots of 17 year olds that lack motivation (autistic or not). Just try to get your son to go to university in an area of interest and that interest should hopefully provide the motivation. Quote
jbg Posted September 6, 2014 Report Posted September 6, 2014 So by 'normal life' you mean 'independent'?Largely, yes. I think you are over worrying. There are lots of 17 year olds that lack motivation (autistic or not). Just try to get your son to go to university in an area of interest and that interest should hopefully provide the motivation.I pray you're right. As a parent I just can't take that chance. Quote Free speech: "You can say what you want, but I don't have to lend you my megaphone." Always remember that when you are in the right you can afford to keep your temper, and when you are in the wrong you cannot afford to lose it. - J.J. Reynolds. Will the steps anyone is proposing to fight "climate change" reduce a single temperature, by a single degree, at a single location? The mantra of "world opinion" or the views of the "international community" betrays flabby and weak reasoning (link).
WestCoastRunner Posted September 6, 2014 Report Posted September 6, 2014 Really? If I offer you a new life, but you'll be born without hearing or eyes, would you take it? Why would anyone not choose life if they had to choose between death and being 'deaf' or choose between death or being 'blind'. What a ridiculous statement. Where do you draw the line Argus, between who lives and who should be aborted? Quote I love to see a young girl go out and grab the world by the lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and kick ass. - Maya Angelou
-1=e^ipi Posted September 6, 2014 Report Posted September 6, 2014 Why would anyone not choose life if they had to choose between death and being 'deaf' or choose between death or being 'blind'. What a ridiculous statement. Where do you draw the line Argus, between who lives and who should be aborted? Argus is arguing from the position of utilitarianism. What is good for the individual is not necessarily good for the population at large. Quote
Peter F Posted September 6, 2014 Report Posted September 6, 2014 That has been true since mankind crawled out of the sea and has applied to all societies throughout history. There are aspects to each one of us that are not necessarily good for the population at large. Of course to Argus the function of paying taxes is the only measurement of use to society. If deaf people pay taxes then Argus will find such lives usefull and worthy of living. If they don't pay taxes they are useless - well, useless to Argus that is. So, no, I don't think Argus is arguing from the position of utilitarianism. He is arguing from the self-centered position of "what have you done for me lately?' Quote A bayonet is a tool with a worker at both ends
jacee Posted September 6, 2014 Report Posted September 6, 2014 I don't know. Do you think everyone is capable, mentally and financially, of caring for a child with some very challenging and special needs? I think that's the parents' decision to make. Down Syndrome kids are often much easier to raise than those with acquired brain injuries from accidents, etc. . Quote
Argus Posted September 7, 2014 Author Report Posted September 7, 2014 Your comments about the accountability of women make you a misogynist. Your statements about an abortion being an easy decision and just a routine procedure make you either disingenuous or out of touch. He's not entirely wrong. Ultimately, a woman can decide she doesn't want a child to intrude into her life because it would be inconvenient at that point, or expensive. Or, if she doesn't believe in abortion she can have the child and give it away without any liability. The male has no choices in this matter. True, he doesn't have to do anything physically, but he has no choice about 'his child' coming into the world, and he has no choice about funding it for the next 18 years, regardless of his economic circumstances. Quote "A liberal is someone who claims to be open to all points of view — and then is surprised and offended to find there are other points of view.” William F Buckley
Argus Posted September 7, 2014 Author Report Posted September 7, 2014 So, no, I don't think Argus is arguing from the position of utilitarianism. He is arguing from the self-centered position of "what have you done for me lately?' I do so love it when ideologues of various stripes tell me what I'm saying. How else would I know what my position was? If you actually examine what I've said I haven't advocated or argued in favour of much of anything. I've merely posed questions. Quote "A liberal is someone who claims to be open to all points of view — and then is surprised and offended to find there are other points of view.” William F Buckley
Mighty AC Posted September 7, 2014 Report Posted September 7, 2014 He's not entirely wrong. Ultimately, a woman can decide she doesn't want a child to intrude into her life because it would be inconvenient at that point, or expensive. Or, if she doesn't believe in abortion she can have the child and give it away without any liability. The male has no choices in this matter. True, he doesn't have to do anything physically, but he has no choice about 'his child' coming into the world, and he has no choice about funding it for the next 18 years, regardless of his economic circumstances.The comment wasn't about the say or choice a male has in the matter, it was about accountability. He said women don't have to be accountable, they can just have an abortion. I say choosing to have an abortion because you cannot support a child or choosing to give a child up for adoption are both examples of accountability. Quote "Our lives begin to end the day we stay silent about the things that matter." - Martin Luther King Jr"Those who can make you believe absurdities, can make you commit atrocities" - Voltaire
Big Guy Posted September 8, 2014 Report Posted September 8, 2014 The comment wasn't about the say or choice a male has in the matter, it was about accountability. He said women don't have to be accountable, they can just have an abortion. I say choosing to have an abortion because you cannot support a child or choosing to give a child up for adoption are both examples of accountability. I would also suggest that the male had the choice of having sex or not and also the choice of using reliable contraceptive devices - or not. I would think there is accountability in that. Quote Note - For those expecting a response from Big Guy: I generally do not read or respond to posts longer then 300 words nor to parsed comments.
-1=e^ipi Posted September 8, 2014 Report Posted September 8, 2014 I would also suggest that the male had the choice of having sex or not and also the choice of using reliable contraceptive devices - or not. I would think there is accountability in that. Couldn't you use the same argument to suggest that abortions aren't needed because the female had the choice of having sex or not and also the choice of using reliable contraceptive devices or not? In North America, for males consent to have sex = consent to be a parent. Where as for females, consent to have sex != consent to be a parent. That is inequality. Males have no reproductive rights beyond consent to have sex. Quote
Peter F Posted September 8, 2014 Report Posted September 8, 2014 You mean the male can't make a woman have an abortion against her will, nor make her carry to term. And so he is deprived of some form of legal right. Right? Quote A bayonet is a tool with a worker at both ends
-1=e^ipi Posted September 8, 2014 Report Posted September 8, 2014 (edited) You mean the male can't make a woman have an abortion against her will, nor make her carry to term. And so he is deprived of some form of legal right. Right? No, I mean that males should have the option to opt out of a pregnancy that they did consent to such that they will not be legally obligated to provide financial support. Edited September 8, 2014 by -1=e^ipi Quote
Peter F Posted September 8, 2014 Report Posted September 8, 2014 But why should the male be given the option? Quote A bayonet is a tool with a worker at both ends
-1=e^ipi Posted September 8, 2014 Report Posted September 8, 2014 But why should the male be given the option? For the sake of equality and fairness. Do you support the current situation where an underage male can get raped by a female and then have to provide financial support to his raper? Quote
jacee Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 (edited) No, I mean that males should have the option to opt out of a pregnancy that they did consent to such that they will not be legally obligated to provide financial support.Did not consent to sex?Otherwise ... Did not consent to pregnancy? In your dreams, sperm! . Edited September 9, 2014 by jacee Quote
jacee Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 For the sake of equality and fairness. Do you support the current situation where an underage male can get raped by a female and then have to provide financial support to his raper? No I don't. You'd have to go to court on that, a criminal charge as well as the support issue. . Quote
jacee Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 Couldn't you use the same argument to suggest that abortions aren't needed because the female had the choice of having sex or not and also the choice of using reliable contraceptive devices or not? In North America, for males consent to have sex = consent to be a parent. Where as for females, consent to have sex != consent to be a parent. That is inequality. Males have no reproductive rights beyond consent to have sex. Yup ... wrap it up.Biological reality. Men can piss fairly privately in public. Women can breastfeed. equal != same. . Quote
-1=e^ipi Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 Biological reality. Men can piss fairly privately in public. Women can breastfeed. equal != same. You know, this sounds a lot like certain arguments that certain islamist groups would make regarding why they think laws should apply differently between men and women. Why are you so opposed to male reproductive rights? Quote
jacee Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 You know, this sounds a lot like certain arguments that certain islamist groups would make regarding why they think laws should apply differently between men and women. Sounds like biological realities to me. Why are you so opposed to male reproductive rights?Males have the right to choose to reproduce.Or not. Biological realities. At least women don't eat you after mating. Your biological reality isn't that bad! Quote
Peter F Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 What reproductive right? Lordy. If men have a right to reproduce then some woman somewhere somewhen must bear a mans child. Its his right, dammit, and if some woman somewhere somewhen refuses to bear his children well dammit she's in violation! Sorry, the best men can hope for is that some woman somewhere somewhen agrees to bear children for him. Thus no reproductive Right exists for males. Never has and probably never will. Quote A bayonet is a tool with a worker at both ends
-1=e^ipi Posted September 9, 2014 Report Posted September 9, 2014 At least women don't eat you after mating. So your big comeback is 'at least you are not a praying mantis'? What reproductive right? Lordy. If men have a right to reproduce then some woman somewhere somewhen must bear a mans child. Its his right, dammit, and if some woman somewhere somewhen refuses to bear his children well dammit she's in violation! There are search engines such as google. Try to use them if you don't know what terms mean. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reproductive_rights#Men.27s_rights Quote
cybercoma Posted September 10, 2014 Report Posted September 10, 2014 Yeah, Peter. You should get your information from Wikipedia. Quote
Big Guy Posted September 11, 2014 Report Posted September 11, 2014 The OP is; “It is Immoral to not abort a Downs Syndrome Foetus?” Get rid of the double negative and it reads; Is it moral to abort a Downs Syndrome Foetus? The question should really read, “Is it moral to abort a foetus BECAUSE it has Downs Syndrome”. My position is that it is the choice of the mother. Quote Note - For those expecting a response from Big Guy: I generally do not read or respond to posts longer then 300 words nor to parsed comments.
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