I lose?
This is why you are often such a poor and uninteresting interlocuteur, everything with you in zero sum. People with even a small amount of experience in high level decision-making pride themselves on their abilities to find common ground amongst people of different opinions and on being able to employ a charitable interpretation of others arguments, you fail miserably on both counts.
If we follow your flawed zero sum analogy, you're scoring on your own net.
School boards? Really? Then you should be just as outraged with school boards banning books they don't agree with, those trying to impose religious beliefs in schools.( Ie: both Louisiana and Oklahoma requirements to post the ten commandments in classrooms . Not to mention state GOVERNMENTS trying to put creationism on the same level as evolution), but you're not are you? because you only get your dander up when it goes against your juvenile presuppositions (as an example our last conversation was about how mean and insulting Trudeau saying that the US missed an opportunity to elect a progressive woman to the presidency was, but Trump saying Canada should be a state was simply a little joke. Still think that?)
Now to the topic at hand. Pew research estimates the number of trans/nonbinary population of the US to be just shy of 50'000, with a fraction of them having had any kind of gender reassignment procedures and that fraction gets even smaller for those under 18( and in conversations we've had about gun control, you have said that 17 isn't really a child)
Let me be clear I don't think anyone under 18 should be subjected to any procedure that could not be reversed if they wanted, but we're taking about a group that could probably be counted on two hands. Hardly cause for the outrage expressed by the conservative "mouvement"
My point was and is that this is just a way for the Republicans to divert the attention of their voters from the fact they have no real solutions. For example Trump said 10 years ago he had a better health care plan two weeks away, yet today still has nothing but a concept of a plan, Trump ran on bringing down grocery prices (amongst others) and now as prices continue to rise he has no solutions, Trump vowed to drain the swamp yet Musk, and I could go on.
In conclusion, in the greater scheme of the problems facing North America the trans issue is inconsequential as it effects an extremely small percentage of people, most just because of ignorance not only of science but how it feels to them based on bigoted religious beliefs. The fact that the best you had was school boards and no actual policy makers shows that all you have is your own bigoted feelings