Women orgasm linked to social class effect

[RB]

National Survey - Occurrence of Orgasm

I mean men reach orgasm at 94.8% of the time. Prior reports always mentioned women are hardly satisfied and only about 30% of them ever reaches vaginal orgasm.

So it is interested that this survey makes it official that those women with a graduate degree are enjoying themselves more than their less educated counterparts say those under 20.

They also summarized for us that wealthy women also are likely to achieve the big O.

[Drea]

For a woman being in a secure relationship and being at peace with her own body are the keys to having orgasms. As a young woman I rarely had them. Now that I am middle age, in secure relationship and happy about the way I look I have 'em all the time! :jumping up and down happy icon: I'm scoring about 90% for the last few years.

But that doesn't mean we have sex daily. Life is so very busy that sex gets put lower on the list than it should.

Also, for a woman (for me at least) I have to be in the right frame of mind. No amount of physical stimulation will do anything if I'm not in the mood mentally.

[betsy]

For a woman being in a secure relationship and being at peace with her own body are the keys to having orgasms.

Amen to that! Plus having a husband or partner who understands.

[Drea]

As for wealthy women achieving the Big O more often... I think it's because a wealthy woman is more secure in herself and can choose to stay or leave a relationship.

A poor woman is going to stay with a man because she needs him financially, orgasm be damned, the kids need to eat!

[crazymf]

I must have found a batch of classy women then. Each and every one I've been with have had no problems reaching orgasm, often. Maybe it's the talent of the stick that counts....

[Drea]

I must have found a batch of classy women then. Each and every one I've been with have had no problems reaching orgasm, often. Maybe it's the talent of the stick that counts....

Don't kid yourself.

If she wasn't in the right frame of mind to begin with.. ie happy with herself, then no orgasm would be forthcoming.

Really has nothing to do with your tool at all. Sorry.

Of course, nothing is easier to fake than an orgasm.

[August1991]

Greg, there's Dr. Phil's producer on line one and she says they have a taping session open in late November on the Coast but that'll conflict with the book-signing in Tokyo. So, we're going to need some direction on this topic. How do you want to proceed?

[crazymf]

I must have found a batch of classy women then. Each and every one I've been with have had no problems reaching orgasm, often. Maybe it's the talent of the stick that counts....

Don't kid yourself.

If she wasn't in the right frame of mind to begin with.. ie happy with herself, then no orgasm would be forthcoming.

Really has nothing to do with your tool at all. Sorry.

Of course, nothing is easier to fake than an orgasm.

OOOOOH, I'm shattered. Oh well, that's sex and politics for you.

[RB]

Well, because I am interested in women moving on with their career and education – I wanted to draw some attention to the fact that women might be even happier with their male partners.

Look at it this way, with relationships it would definitely worry a man tremendously if he had self-doubt about his performance. Nevertheless, I feel that males still build their supremacy from the female reproductive systems.

Anyway, Careers And Marriage Forbes.com article would have men rejecting career women, education and their demands for equality for the fear of some defeat. They would have men "marry pretty women or ugly ones. Short ones or tall ones. Blondes or brunettes. Just, whatever you do, don't marry a woman with a career" usually also means they are educated.

Sadly there is always onus and more burden on the women in their quest for what is equal. Here is what I am quisical about - Ok if a woman’s goal is to be on par with men, therefore their demands for orgasm (95% is a lot for men vs. women <30%), and because women are educated we can work in such demands and it would make freedom and achievement of women thinkable?.

What I mean is it is now advisable to stay away from those educated types with their career. I mean most career women are very single. I just don’t get it.

I mean there is something about raising the bar if men cannot cope with women who are smart and also wishing for careers and also wanting to be happy with their orgasm? Like can men be reorganised?

The one question that arises is a pounce on women, do they “loose” themselves in the process of orgasm, meaning also they might want to their protect their “O” as a means of freedom and measure their stake of being free only along the axis of the sexual systems. Means we encourage men to participate and dominate us and our repoductive systems.

I wanted to encourage this discussion because I cannot see how women who simply becomes free with their “O” measure it precisely by their lack of being free from men.

[betsy]

As for wealthy women achieving the Big O more often... I think it's because a wealthy woman is more secure in herself and can choose to stay or leave a relationship.

A poor woman is going to stay with a man because she needs him financially, orgasm be damned, the kids need to eat!

And it's hard to be in the mood for sex after a long day's work...so of course Big Os don't come that often. Such is a poor woman's lot.

Btw RB, do multiple-orgasms count? I think ONLY WOMEN can have that.

[betsy]

Well, because I am interested in women moving on with their career and education – I wanted to draw some attention to the fact that women might be even happier with their male partners.

Look at it this way, with relationships it would definitely worry a man tremendously if he had self-doubt about his performance. Nevertheless, I feel that males still build their supremacy from the female reproductive systems.

Anyway, Careers And Marriage Forbes.com article would have men rejecting career women, education and their demands for equality for the fear of some defeat. They would have men "marry pretty women or ugly ones. Short ones or tall ones. Blondes or brunettes. Just, whatever you do, don't marry a woman with a career" usually also means they are educated.

Sadly there is always onus and more burden on the women in their quest for what is equal. Here is what I am quisical about - Ok if a woman’s goal is to be on par with men, therefore their demands for orgasm (95% is a lot for men vs. women <30%), and because women are educated we can work in such demands and it would make freedom and achievement of women thinkable?.

What I mean is it is now advisable to stay away from those educated types with their career. I mean most career women are very single. I just don’t get it.

I mean there is something about raising the bar if men cannot cope with women who are smart and also wishing for careers and also wanting to be happy with their orgasm? Like can men be reorganised?

The one question that arises is a pounce on women, do they “loose” themselves in the process of orgasm, meaning also they might want to their protect their “O” as a means of freedom and measure their stake of being free only along the axis of the sexual systems. Means we encourage men to participate and dominate us and our repoductive systems.

I wanted to encourage this discussion because I cannot see how women who simply becomes free with their “O” measure it precisely by their lack of being free from men.

Imho, the most important is that you share the same values and goals in life. And that goes too for priorities in life. You will then both paddle your boat to try to reach the same destination.

No matter what, marriage takes hard work in order to survive. So both of you must have a desire for commitment. Some people get into a "meaningful" relationship thinking negatively on the outset: that if things don't work out, I will walk.

Well it will only last if both people put an effort and a determination to make it work!

It will take much more than just good sex to make a relationship last.

[Drea]

Imho, the most important is that you share the same values and goals in life. And that goes too for priorities in life. You will then both paddle your boat to try to reach the same destination.

No matter what, marriage takes hard work in order to survive. So both of you must have a desire for commitment. Some people get into a "meaningful" relationship thinking negatively on the outset: that if things don't work out, I will walk.

Well it will only last if both people put an effort and a determination to make it work!

It will take much more than just good sex to make a relationship last.

You are so right. A couple needs to go into it believing it will last a lifetime.

And it's vital, as you said, to be on the same page, to have the same values.

It helps alot if you can marry your best friend.