Family Day

Oleg Bach · February 20, 2008

Just couldn't pass this one up.
What exactly is a real woman?

A woman that can relate to a male in a natural , positive and non-political manner - you know what I mean. I tell younger folks that if they seek a mate that the primary objective is to find someone "reasonable" - to me that is a real woman - not one controled by society but one that controls herself...much like what are real man is and should be - not some submissive weasil or aggressive feminist eccentric nut that does not think for herself and does not do what is natural - now where the hell is my coffee?

guyser · February 20, 2008

frankly I don't know of any women who have Vigina's, where do you meet these most unusual women?

Down Roanoke way , near the beltway.

Oleg Bach · February 20, 2008

Down Roanoke way , near the beltway.

They all have them and they are all different - much like an old fashioned candy store with a huge variety of shape and flavour - offended? Nawh - woman are the only thing of value in the world..children are a bonus - but a female is pure gold and comfort..not to mention the finest thing ever invented...as you mature - if you had the choice of a million dollars or a fine woman - you - if you are wise take the woman - the rest takes care of itself....so is the "beltway" some strange sado club?

guyser · February 20, 2008

They all have them and they are all different - much like an old fashioned candy store with a huge variety of shape and flavour - offended? Nawh - woman are the only thing of value in the world..children are a bonus - but a female is pure gold and comfort..not to mention the finest thing ever invented...as you mature - if you had the choice of a million dollars or a fine woman - you - if you are wise take the woman - the rest takes care of itself....so is the "beltway" some strange sado club?

Stand up, it went right over your head.

By the way, take the cash every time. Only a fool would go the other way.

Oleg Bach · February 20, 2008

Stand up, it went right over your head.
By the way, take the cash every time. Only a fool would go the other way.

So you would sit there with a huge bank account and have to deal with a contentious idot that was nothing but a walking extortionist protect and faclitated by some creepy lawyers? You are the fool - If a man has a good woman he will prosper - if he has an idiot for a wife - it will always be two step forward and three back. Your post did not go over my head - I simply did not read the thread in full ----- but it seems you may be vagina starved...poor man ---goodness hope your not a female.

guyser · February 21, 2008

So you would sit there with a huge bank .......vagina starved...poor man ---goodness hope your not a female.

Did you got to the leafless school of writing?

AngusThermopyle · February 21, 2008

if you had the choice of a million dollars or a fine woman - you - if you are wise take the woman

Well its just me but I'd take the money and then enjoy a whole bunch of cheap sleazy hot women. Thats just me though, I like sexy sleazy women. You don't keep them Oleg, just play with them.

Thats my ration of extreme male chauvinism for the week folks.

M.Dancer · February 21, 2008

Well its just me but I'd take the money and then enjoy a whole bunch of cheap sleazy hot women. Thats just me though, I like sexy sleazy women. You don't keep them Oleg, just play with them.
Thats my ration of extreme male chauvinism for the week folks.

I dare say with a million dollars you would be able to find a fine woman too....having the means to scout them out in more places and the wherewithal to court and woo....and still have some chump change for the cheap sleezy ones on the off days....

AngusThermopyle · February 21, 2008

I dare say with a million dollars you would be able to find a fine woman too....having the means to scout them out in more places and the wherewithal to court and woo....and still have some chump change for the cheap sleezy ones on the off days....

That sounds like a pretty good deal as well.

guyser · February 21, 2008

That sounds like a pretty good deal as well.

Glad at least some people get it. Of course take the money, the other is a long shot to work out , and money never makes you sleep in the wet spot.

Leafless · February 22, 2008

Did you got to the leafless school of writing?

Yes, more proof , guyser is a primary school dropout but who excelled in the fine art of pee-pee jokes.

kengs333 · February 25, 2008

At this point in our country's history, the only field in which Ontario is "superior" is in the number of MPs in the House of Commons.
Considering the state of federal politics in this country, I'm not entirely sure that's something to brag about.

-k

Well, I'm really honoured that you've taken the time to add your 2 Øre to the discussion, but it seems that you haven't read all of my posts or really understand where I'm coming from.

kengs333 · February 25, 2008

"Family Day" means mom cooks a big meal while dad and the kids go sledding or play road hockey.

Is having to cook one large meal for the family a week really a huge chore considering the vital role that meals USED to play in maintaining a functional family structure? Needless to say, dad had probably been working 10 to 12 hours a day 5 or 6 days of the week (not including commute) while the mother was able to stay at home with the children and interact with them, but dad goes out an spends a few hours with them once a week and suddenly this is a huge crime. Funny, I can't tell you how many times I've heard/read women "complaining" that daddy doesn't spend enough time with the kids, and here you are "complaining" that dads sometimes spent Sundays with the kids while mommy actually had to cook a meal instead of microwaving a handful of TV dinners.

guyser · February 25, 2008

Is having to cook one large meal for the family a week really a huge chore considering the vital role that meals USED to play in maintaining a functional family structure? Needless to say, dad had probably been working 10 to 12 hours a day 5 or 6 days of the week

Not married and no kids .

Thought so. The 50's were so last century.

kengs333 · February 25, 2008

Not married and no kids .
Thought so. The 50's were so last century.

Personally, whether or not you are married and whether or not you have children is not something I'm interested in knowing. If you want approval and/or praise for the fact that you style your personal life based on socially destructive trends, please take it somewhere else. Oh, and by the way, thanks for indirectly contributing to current trend towards islamification in this country...

Drea · February 25, 2008

Is having to cook one large meal for the family a week really a huge chore considering the vital role that meals USED to play in maintaining a functional family structure? Needless to say, dad had probably been working 10 to 12 hours a day 5 or 6 days of the week (not including commute) while the mother was able to stay at home with the children and interact with them, but dad goes out an spends a few hours with them once a week and suddenly this is a huge crime. Funny, I can't tell you how many times I've heard/read women "complaining" that daddy doesn't spend enough time with the kids, and here you are "complaining" that dads sometimes spent Sundays with the kids while mommy actually had to cook a meal instead of microwaving a handful of TV dinners.

Most moms today work at a job outside the home. For the weekends why not have the whole family go sledding and then out for pizza? And on one of those weekend days the whole family should pitch in to get the home maintenance done... laundry, vacuuming, lawn mowing, etc.

People manage to eat balanced meals throughout the week even when two parents are working. We do, and I certainly don't think we are the exception.

Most of my male coworkers are very involved in the day to day lives of their children. They are the ones picking them up after school (sometimes bringing them to the office), driving them to hockey, dance, etc. In my opinion, this is an added benefit to the whole family. The children not only get to see their mother as a well-rounded person with interests, they also get to see their father in a nurturing everyday role.

Leafless · February 25, 2008

Most moms today work at a job outside the home. For the weekends why not have the whole family go sledding and then out for pizza?

Looks like mom is looking for reward time.

This is what contributes to the down fall of the family and that is the disassociation of the normal chores that greatly helps initially, to create the bonding, that in turn helps create a loyal family attachment, by all members of the family and is not dependent on commercialism.

And on one of those weekend days the whole family should pitch in to get the home maintenance done... laundry, vacuuming, lawn mowing, etc.

Has this not always been the case regardless, of family chores being done on the weekend?

People manage to eat balanced meals throughout the week even when two parents are working. We do, and I certainly don't think we are the exception.

This is debatable as most microwave prepared meals do not provide the type of nutrition necessary and many families simply do not have the resources to include a variety of expensive ready made store bought items.

Most of my male coworkers are very involved in the day to day lives of their children. They are the ones picking them up after school (sometimes bringing them to the office), driving them to hockey, dance, etc. In my opinion, this is an added benefit to the whole family.

What makes you justify that?

Is this not added stress?

Hockey, dances especially relating to younger children is where they pick up many of their bad habits relating to other children who have not been raised properly.

Drea · February 25, 2008

Looks like mom is looking for reward time.

Absolutely! Shouldn't mom get a reward for working hard all week too? If kids and dad deserve a fun day so does mom.

This is what contributes to the down fall of the family and that is the disassociation of the normal chores that greatly helps initially, to create the bonding, that in turn helps create a loyal family attachment, by all members of the family and is not dependent on commercialism.

Huh? Are you saying the family that plays together is "dissasociated"?

Has this not always been the case regardless, of family chores being done on the weekend?

One would hope so.

This is debatable as most microwave prepared meals do not provide the type of nutrition necessary and many families simply do not have the resources to include a variety of expensive ready made store bought items.

We are not the exception. We do not microwave dinners. We cook a meat, a starch and a veggie -- every night. Many times on Fridays we order Pizza though.

You seem to have a perception that dinner takes hours upon hours to prepare. It doesn't. I can have chicken cut up, spuds in the pot and salad on the way in about 20 minutes...

What makes you justify that?
Is this not added stress?

For whom?

Hockey, dances especially relating to younger children is where they pick up many of their bad habits relating to other children who have not been raised properly.

Oh, so children should have no outside activities in case they run into a "bad" kid? LOL

Ah what the hell, pull them out of their activities and drop them off at the mall... :rolleyes:

You are just po'd because a family DOES do better when EVERYONE is involved and daddy isn't just some stranger that walks in the door at 5pm. You just want to keep fathers distant from their children. You work for the court system or sumpthin'?

Leafless · February 25, 2008

You are just po'd because a family DOES do better when EVERYONE is involved and daddy isn't just some stranger that walks in the door at 5pm. You just want to keep fathers distant from their children. You work for the court system or sumpthin'?

Forget it Drea.

You and I are just are not on the same wavelength relating to important negative characteristics relating to modern and nuclear families as in comparison to the traditional family.

Drea · February 25, 2008

Agreed to disagree Leafless.

You believe a stay at home mom is vital to maintaining the "traditional" family unit.

I believe a well rounded mom (and well rounded dad and kids) are vital to the health of society as a whole.

S'all good.

guyser · February 25, 2008

Personally, whether or not you are married and whether or not you have children is not something I'm interested in knowing.

Ok...I think.

If you want approval and/or praise for the fact that you style your personal life based on socially destructive trends, please take it somewhere else. Oh, and by the way, thanks for indirectly contributing to current trend towards islamification in this country...

Socially destructive trends, contributing to islamification. Do you have any idea in hell what you are talking about? I said no such thing or things.

But let me guess.....you are a Christian?

Wasnt hard to spot.

Like I said, the 50s are so passe.

"Gee Ward, weren't you a little hard on the beaver last night?"

Leafless · February 25, 2008

Agreed to disagree Leafless.
You believe a stay at home mom is vital to maintaining the "traditional" family unit.

I believe a well rounded mom (and well rounded dad and kids) are vital to the health of society as a whole.

S'all good.

A-1.

Best of luck Drea.

kengs333 · February 26, 2008

Most moms today work at a job outside the home. For the weekends why not have the whole family go sledding and then out for pizza? And on one of those weekend days the whole family should pitch in to get the home maintenance done... laundry, vacuuming, lawn mowing, etc.

Pizza is actually quite unhealthy, as is most restaurant food. Personally I don't care to eat in restaurants knowing what kind of garbage happens behind the scenes. Nothing tastes better than a meal lovingly prepared by one's devoted and trustworthy mother/wife in the comfort of one's own home.

kengs333 · February 26, 2008

Socially destructive trends, contributing to islamification. Do you have any idea in hell what you are talking about? I said no such thing or things.

Yes, I know what I'm talking about.

geoffrey · February 26, 2008

Pizza is actually quite unhealthy, as is most restaurant food. Personally I don't care to eat in restaurants knowing what kind of garbage happens behind the scenes. Nothing tastes better than a meal lovingly prepared by one's devoted and trustworthy mother/wife in the comfort of one's own home.

I didn't know that fossils like yourself still existed. Thanks for enlightening me.