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[BC_chick]

American statistics, but it happens in Canada just the same: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ken-altshuler/for-this-mothers-day-more_b_1510361.html

The laws are not written such that it is one side or the other that's required to pay. I believe it's worded as "absent parent," but I could be wrong and I don't feel like searching for it at the moment.

Exactly, and lots of women do pay child-support.

Also, child-support is substantially reduced and/or eliminated when both parents equally share the responsibility of raising that child.

It just so happens that most men don't WANT to share the responsibility and they want to compalin about having to pay.

They have no clue how costly things are for a single-mom.

[Mr.Canada]

The thing is guys is that you need to find out early where the woman you're dealing with stands on issues. And you can avoid these situations entirely. So before you poke, pick properly. Below I have outlined a simple profile of what to look out for both life and choice camps.

I used to meet a lot of women in the grocery store, so I'll use that as an example. It's the perfect place since you can see what type of person they have right away. You can tell alot about a person by their shoes and their general attire. Because they are grocery shopping they tend to have their guard down and will dress in a comfortable manner so you'll be bale to get a accurate cross section of their lives. Plus sometimes you can see what car they drive.

Look at their carts and what they're buying as well. That will tell you if she's single or with someone and if she has kids.

With cars stay away from most women who drive a Prius or any hybrid really, they will almost always be scoialist, liberal, green ecological, save the planet, tree hugging pro choicers. Take a stab at it cause you never know but from my experience the above rings true.

For attire pick a women who looks relaxed in what she's wearing. Almost all the goth, emo types are socialists of varying degrees and worse vegetarians. Almost all the corporate stuck up power bitches are liberals so your mileage will vary with them. almsot all of the party girl, tight tank top wearing hotties are going to be leftists as well. Very open with their bodies but not the type you want to settle down with. You want to pick a girl/woman with preppy but slightly conservative attire. Example being nice jeans that are fitting but not too tight, button down cotton Polo or reasonable top perhaps revealing a hint of bossom but not too revealing and slutty. With or without a cotton tank top underneath.

For shoes you're looking for function over style here. Some nice low rise or flats, rarely wedges and almost never heels.

Also look for crosses around their neck or from their car rear view mirrors, this is always a good sign.

Body type varies I would guess. I like athletic types personally as I work out regularly so those are the ones I always went for.

Hairstyle varies as well but in my experience you can never go wrong with the simple pony tail.

Look at their nails as well. Are they high maintenance? Or are they neat, clean and at a reasonable length?

The approach is crucial, don't rush it. It needs to appear natural and unrehearsed. I've used various methods of first contact with my target. The produce section works the best as you can comment on the freshness of whatever she has in her hand at the moment or what a great deal it is. If she is receptive and friendly great she still has potential, if she is rude and ignoring leave it right there and move on to a new target. Try to get her to laugh, if you can your chances of success have just increased 100%.

If your not in the produce section all is not lost. You can pretend you're not paying attention and bump into her cart with yours and start from there.

Oh I almost forgot never try these techniques on a weekend, it's too busy and everyone just wants to get the hell out of there. A day like Tuesday or Wednesday is ideal.

So just some help for the guys looking for a girl who is more prone to be a pro life sort. Most girls/women are not pro choice or life entirely but as long as it's close you have something to work with.

Even my wife is pro life personally but she doesn't think anyone should be telling women what to do with their own bodies but does believe in some sort of week limit for abortion. In other words just because she is pro life doesn't mean she should push her values on others.

Well I hope this has helped you pick out the right girls so you can avoid getting her pregnant and her telling you that your ass is taking to the old abortion clinic. If she has a fridge magnet for the clinic it's never a good sign.

Good day.

[guyser]

Below I have outlined a simple profile of what to look out for both life and choice camps.....

...the clinic it's never a good sign.

Good day.

Something tells me you couldnt get laid at a hooker convention and a pocketful of $100's .

Your advice is horrible, far too generalized, and as accurate as peeing in a windstorm.

You forgot to add the part about German chicks,everyone knows theyre freaky.

But thanks for the laugh

Edited September 28, 2012 by guyser

[Wild Bill]

Well I hope this has helped you pick out the right girls so you can avoid getting her pregnant and her telling you that your ass is taking to the old abortion clinic. If she has a fridge magnet for the clinic it's never a good sign.

Good day.

Mr. Canada, tell the truth. Your idea of a wild dance party is Walter Ostenek and his polka band!

You sound like you grew up in Mayberry and never left! No shame in that. I always rather liked Mayberry myself!

It's just that when you give advice to the mainstream it doesn't resonate well when you seem to be anything but mainstream yourself.

[Mr.Canada]

Something tells me you couldnt get laid at a hooker convention and a pocketful of $100's .

Your advice is horrible, far too generalized, and as accurate as peeing in a windstorm.

You forgot to add the part about German chicks,everyone knows theyre freaky.

But thanks for the laugh

Lol. I'm a good looking guy you'd never guess I was the one behind these posts if you saw me. I've made that offer several times on this board to meet up in person but as yet no one has taken me up on it. I've nothing to hide...lol.

[guyser]

Lol. I'm a good looking guy you'd never guess I was the one behind these posts if you saw me. I've made that offer several times on this board to meet up in person but as yet no one has taken me up on it. I've nothing to hide...lol.

You may well be what you say you are, ie looks (isnt everyone bradd pitt-esk on the internet?) but the moment she talks to you, full pockets of Benjamins notwithstanding, she'll take a pass.

Afterall, theres tons of $$ to be made without subjecting herself to a self righteous bore. I see you proseletyzing the good Lords works all the while bangin away. Hookers have no time for hypocrites.

All said, I am confident it was said in jest , so alls good.

Edited September 28, 2012 by guyser

[BC_chick]

The approach is crucial, don't rush it. It needs to appear natural and unrehearsed. I've used various methods of first contact with my target. The produce section works the best as you can comment on the freshness of whatever she has in her hand at the moment or what a great deal it is. If she is receptive and friendly great she still has potential, if she is rude and ignoring leave it right there and move on to a new target. Try to get her to laugh, if you can your chances of success have just increased 100%.

If your not in the produce section all is not lost. You can pretend you're not paying attention and bump into her cart with yours and start from there.

I really don't even know where to begin. Maybe picking the 'target'... or the friendly chat about fruit. Or perhaps the bumping into their cart.

Mr. Canada, honestly, as a woman I can say this is really creepy behaviour.

Have you ever really managed to get somebody's contact information after chatting about the freshness of the local strawberries?

If so, I'm speechless.

Edited September 28, 2012 by BC_chick

[guyser]

IHave you ever really managed to get somebody's contact information after chatting about the freshness of the local strawberries?

No, only using the melons.

{sorry , couldnt resist)

If so, I'm speechless.

I am guessing he is more of a " Here Lady smell this, does it smell like chlorophorm to you? "

[BC_chick]

No, only using the melons.

{sorry , couldnt resist)

I am guessing he is more of a " Here Lady smell this, does it smell like chlorophorm to you? "

:lol:

[Mr.Canada]

I really don't even know where to begin. Maybe picking the 'target'... or the friendly chat about fruit. Or perhaps the bumping into their cart.

Mr. Canada, honestly, as a woman I can say this is really creepy behaviour.

Have you ever really managed to get somebody's contact information after chatting about the freshness of the local strawberries?

If so, I'm speechless.

Yes of course. I'm married now but I used to do this often. It's not done all at once. I'm a good looking guy who is fit and clean cut so it's easier for me then some to pick up women. Plus I'm not shy.

Lots of pretty women never get approached because most men think they are out of their league so they never get approached which effects their self esteem and makes me noticing them that much better. Pretty women that do get approached aren't spoken to like people but like a piece of meat. Where as I barely acknowledge their looks and instead am interested in them as people.

First step is to make contact, strike up a conversation and go from there. If you're not feeling it the first time note the time/day and make a point to return to the store at the same time next week as women usually follow a pattern and like stability and schedules. Second time is the time to see if they would want to go for a coffee or a drink or lunch or whatever.

Trust me though if you make them laugh they will relax and let their guard down making it easier for your plays to make their way through the guard.

It only sounds creepy because I'm explaining my thought process whereas in public people cannot read others minds afaik.

[Mr.Canada]

I really hope my techniques help people who are struggling to find a woman who is not pro life friendly. Good luck all. Don't listen to the others in this thread, my techniques work. My profiling works as well. You can save yourself a lot of heart and headache by following my guidelines.

[The_Squid]

I really hope my techniques help people who are struggling to find a woman who is not pro life friendly. Good luck all. Don't listen to the others in this thread, my techniques work. My profiling works as well. You can save yourself a lot of heart and headache by following my guidelines.

Now you're just spamming the board about your whacky dating philosophy.... There is no end to your trolling. The sooner we are ride of you (again) the better the board will be......

[Mr.Canada]

Now you're just spamming the board about your whacky dating philosophy.... There is no end to your trolling. The sooner we are ride of you (again) the better the board will be......

Trolling means I'm trying to elicit an emotion response from others, that's not what I'm doing here.

I'm trying to help out people who don't wish to waste their time with abortionists. So I'm giving some pointers on how to avoid them. Including tips on how to pick up women.

Edited September 29, 2012 by Mr.Canada

[BC_chick]

If you're not feeling it the first time note the time/day and make a point to return to the store at the same time next week as women usually follow a pattern and like stability and schedules.

Good lord, you admit this?! That's full stalker behaviour. Way beyond creepy now.

[dre]

Good lord, you admit this?! That's full stalker behaviour. Way beyond creepy now.

[Bonam]

Good lord, you admit this?! That's full stalker behaviour. Way beyond creepy now.

Hah. If you only knew the half of the kinds of thoughts that go through guys brains as they try to pick up women you'd be creeped out a lot more. It's an inevitable result of the culture where the onus is generally on the man to initiate and to pursue. Here's a hint: any "coincidental" encounter you might have ever had with a guy who was interested in you, was very likely not, in fact, coincidental.

[dre]

Hah. If you only knew the half of the kinds of thoughts that go through guys brains as they try to pick up women you'd be creeped out a lot more. It's an inevitable result of the culture where the onus is generally on the man to initiate and to pursue. Here's a hint: any "coincidental" encounter you might have ever had with a guy who was interested in you, was very likely not, in fact, coincidental.

Heres a hint for you... the flys think they are "in pursuit" while they are flying into your bug zapper too!

[Bonam]

Heres a hint for you... the flys think they are "in pursuit" while they are flying into your bug zapper too!

True.

[BC_chick]

Hah. If you only knew the half of the kinds of thoughts that go through guys brains as they try to pick up women you'd be creeped out a lot more. It's an inevitable result of the culture where the onus is generally on the man to initiate and to pursue. Here's a hint: any "coincidental" encounter you might have ever had with a guy who was interested in you, was very likely not, in fact, coincidental.

I had a stalker once so maybe I'm jaded but I don't find it cool to take note of the time and day and show up trying to 'run into' someone.

Seriously, you don't find that weird?

ETA and I say this because that's exactly the type of stuff that guy would do.

Edited September 29, 2012 by BC_chick

[Mr.Canada]

I had a stalker once so maybe I'm jaded but I don't find it cool to take note of the time and day and show up trying to 'run into' someone.

Seriously, you don't find that weird?

ETA and I say this because that's exactly the type of stuff that guy would do.

It's no different then someone going to a bar on a certain day cause you might be there that night. Same thing. I would be pursuing a number of girls at the same time not just one. Now that would be creepy...lol. I was in my early to late 20's then I met my future wife and the rest is history.

In order to pick up a girl you have to show intrest. It's hard to show intrest if you can't talk to her...lol. So I would have to make myself available to her.

Landromats are very good places too as peole are sitting there for an hour with nothing to do but stare at their clothes spinning around. You can have a girls undivided attention for an hour. That should be enough time for someone smooth.

Heres a hint for you... the flys think they are "in pursuit" while they are flying into your bug zapper too!

I'd be going after a bunch of girls at once so if one wasn't interested I would have another to take her place in my stable. Yeah I used to call it my stable...lol. As in my stable of girls I could call. I was honest with all of them though telling them that I didn't want anything serious just some fun from time to time. You'd be surprised how many girls are receptive to that honesty. I treaed them all very nicely.

Edited September 29, 2012 by Mr.Canada

[Bonam]

I had a stalker once so maybe I'm jaded but I don't find it cool to take note of the time and day and show up trying to 'run into' someone.

Seriously, you don't find that weird?

ETA and I say this because that's exactly the type of stuff that guy would do.

It's very subjective. Obviously, if his advances are unwelcome, a normal guy will stop and move on to greener pastures. But when trying to maneuver for a first encounter, guys will do all kinds of stuff to make it seem natural, or to try to make it seem like it stands out, or whatever. It can be very hard to just walk up to someone randomly and try to start a conversation, rather, it can be a lot easier to try to have it happen due to some situation where it would happen "naturally". In Mr. Canada's case, apparently, that might mean "accidentally" bumping into someone's grocery cart in the store. And if you saw that person in the wrong section of the store for your tactics to apply, come back tomorrow and try again. Whether the woman perceives it as creepy or not depends on whether she sees through the tactics or not, and whether she welcomes the advances or not. You can get away with being all kinds of weird and creepy if you're good looking and rich ;p

[Bonam]

Landromats are very good places too as peole are sitting there for an hour with nothing to do but stare at their clothes spinning around. You can have a girls undivided attention for an hour. That should be enough time for someone smooth.

How long ago was this? Who actually sits around in the laundromat waiting? If I was gonna be out on the hunt for girls I'd be looking for ones that had more interesting things to do in their lives than sit around for an hour doing nothing

[BC_chick]

It's very subjective. Obviously, if his advances are unwelcome, a normal guy will stop and move on to greener pastures. But when trying to maneuver for a first encounter, guys will do all kinds of stuff to make it seem natural, or to try to make it seem like it stands out, or whatever. It can be very hard to just walk up to someone randomly and try to start a conversation, rather, it can be a lot easier to try to have it happen due to some situation where it would happen "naturally". In Mr. Canada's case, apparently, that might mean "accidentally" bumping into someone's grocery cart in the store. And if you saw that person in the wrong section of the store for your tactics to apply, come back tomorrow and try again. Whether the woman perceives it as creepy or not depends on whether she sees through the tactics or not, and whether she welcomes the advances or not. You can get away with being all kinds of weird and creepy if you're good looking and rich ;p

Fair enough, the fine-line between the creepy stalker and a cute interested guy are 1) being a good catch and 2) knowing when a woman is not interested.

But what happens when a man is a legend in his own mind (1) and therefore is in no position to interpret (2)?

I know it's hard to know these things with online an online persona but something tells me Mr. C might just be that man.

There is just so much irrationality in all his posts. Some of that has got to creep into his personal life.

Edited September 29, 2012 by BC_chick

[Bonam]

Fair enough, the fine-line between the creepy stalker and a cute interested guy are 1) being a good catch and 2) knowing when a woman is not interested.

But what happens when a man is a legend in his own mind (1) and therefore is in no position to interpret (2)?

Then he's a creepy stalker

I know it's hard to know these things with online an online persona but something tells me Mr. C might just be that man.

There is just so much irrationality in all his posts. Some of that has got to creep into his personal life.

Well, he says he is happily married and barring any evidence to the contrary I guess I am inclined to take his word for it. There are people out there of both genders of just about any possible political stripe and personality type, so what to you may seem irrational may have seemed like a great catch to some other woman.

Edited September 29, 2012 by Bonam

[BC_chick]

Well, he says he is happily married and barring any evidence to the contrary I guess I am inclined to take his word for it. There are people out there of both genders of just about any possible political stripe and personality type, so what to you may seem irrational may have seemed like a great catch to some other woman.

You have a point. Still, when he was talking about the laundromat and having a woman's 'undivided' attention for an hour, I couldn't help but think of those moments in life where you're trapped with someone who really doesn't know how to take a hint.

You're a good guy though for giving him the benefit of the doubt. Or maybe you need to read more of his posts.