That's a good part of it,but not all.As a parent of 4 teenagers life isn't too bad with my bunch.Why?
1.No cable T.V.
2.No allowances,you want,you earn- and I don't mean household chores-those are to be done because you live in this house.You want to buy,get a job.
3.I want to know where you are and with who.Your friends are always welcome at this house and overnight.Better it happens under your own roof.
4.We are not church goers,but morals and fairness are expected as a personal value from everyone in this home.
5.Siblings are more important than friends and should be treated as such when help or rescue is required.
6.Communications on a daily basis is a must.I want to know what you are doing and I CARE about it,so ask me when there is a problem,maybe I can help or offer some advice.
7.Interact,go to the game they play,see their projects,help them with their needs in school,respect their choices.
8.Love your spouse and your kids will love you both.
9.Love them,you made them, they're yours for life.
Wow, we need more parents like you. Most parents I know are either never paying attention to their kids or paying the wrong kind of attention to them.