MALE – FEMALE
The problem with attraction and American Society
The problem with American Society is a complicated one, when pondering relationships. Now, more than ever, there are more single woman in their mid twenties to mid 40’s, and some of them have kinds. It is hard to imagine if these people are truly happy or not, I mean how could you be. If there is no body there when you get home from work, no one to talk to, not to mention no one to have sex with, how could this be genuine happiness. It is sad to say the least. However, a lot of these woman are the same weman that make up fifty percent of law schools and medical schools, so they have good jobs. (and the rate is climbing) It is not hard to see that in school, girls are often better students, I mean look. How many females had prestigious jobs 40 years ago? Almost none. They have made advances concerning this. However, while females are better students, it seems that they are definitely not even close as to a male concerning their individuality. Males are often content to think , live, and do everything alone. Most of the time, the only reason a male wants a girlfriend is because of physical reasons. This being said some males may feel discontent, or even ashamed that they cannot reach the most prestigious jobs because of their female counterparts, however they are not willing to admit it on any level. Often times guys are not exactly in a hurry to date woman who are getting paid more and have more prestige. So males are not getting the sex, they want and females are not getting the relationship they want. These trends start in college, when females are studying with their friends and males are running around trying to get drunk and have sex with anything on two legs. So, females often time end up with better grades and better jobs.
Another problem is the fact that most girls seem like they want any man they can, because they are the one who gets attention, and males are physically attracted to them. However, now that weman are working and getting jobs, and acting like males, males are less likely to come on to them and think of them as a legitimate partners. (it is called male ego) Also, half the time a woman will go after the, “bad boy” type and get rejected and cheated on. Who can help her, she did it to herself? While the nice guys, who really want a girlfriend are rejected, and don’t even get a chance in a relationship. Thus, woman are having a harder time finding a relationship, and are not satisfied. This often leads to bitterness and feminism. While, males are also often times embarrassed to be with the bread winner female. However, it is sometimes true that these bredwinning females are often time bossier, into themselves, controlling, not as attractive, and have a high egos. To a males defense, who want to be with that.
So now, society is stuck in the middle, having dicorces, one night stands and other relationship problems, because they are unsatisfied. Thus, crime, depression, hatred, and envy goes up in society.
End of the story, we are too selfish as human beings
