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  1. At least my lack of empathy was not unusual. Having practiced as a psychotherapist for 35 years, LaBier believes that what he calls empathy deficit disorder (EDD) is rampant among Americans.

    LaBier says we unlearn whatever empathy skills we've picked up while coming of age in a culture that focuses on acquisition and status more than cooperation and values "moving on" over thoughtful reflection. LaBier is convinced that EDD is at the heart of modernity's most common problems, macro (war) and micro (divorce).

    As LaBier explains, virtually everyone learns the basics of empathy in childhood (from our parents comforting us when we're in distress), but my father died when I was 4, and afterward my mother had to be very can-do, juggling three jobs, graduate school, and two kids. When I was upset, she never said, "Oh, I'm sorry. It must be hard to have me away so much after losing your dad."

    Instead, on good days, she'd say, "Why are you crying? Nothing is wrong." And on bad days: "You'd better toughen up because life can get a lot worse." Looking back at my 20-something self, I realize that if, as LaBier says, empathy is "the ability or the willingness to experience the world from someone else's point of view," I wasn't brought up to be able to do that.

    http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/06...athy/index.html

    So being strict or assertive, instead of being a natural reaction among a great number of people in certain situations, could be a sign of a disorder? I confused.

  2. It seems like sexual attractiveness trumps governmental power in this case, if it is true.

    Freedom: You have the ability to do what you want, including impeed on others ability to do what they want, as they can to you. Hierarchy systems rise up instantly and legal systems hopefully soon after.

  3. What is up with this stuff? Historical fiction?

    I love history and i love fiction. But when you turn them into one single category, i dont know whats what.

    Although this movie looks epic, I have a hard time understanding the real life of genghis khan after watching this stuff.

    Did genghis really have a strong, good wife? Did he really go through all that hardship before becoming Khan?

    I think writers have to be careful when they take on History.

    Its probably going to suck, and is going to remain as faithful to the historical source as Beowulf was, adding soapy bits about how he was just an ordinary nice guy righting a few wrongs. Most movies suck.

    Historical fiction can and has been done well, there are plenty of things you can do and say artistically with an event or time period.

  4. Im not sure I understand how this is a case for socialism...

    also

    Socialsm? On one hand you have the Soviet Ubion, on the other, NAZI Germany....

    Socialism as a transition to communism and NATIONAL Socialism as ethnocentrism are completely different animals and hardly two sides of the same coin. If you're talking just about the idea of the government having heavy control on the means of production and distribution of goods then where does that leave the many other possibilities for that idea?

  5. “Food prices are going up,” he tells his interviewer, Sir Trevor McDonald. “Everyone thinks it’s to do with not enough food, but it’s really that demand is too great – too many people. Basically, it’s a little embarrassing for everybody. No one quite knows how to handle it. Nobody wants their family life to be interfered with by the government.”

    Prince Philip on population.

    Note the comments made by the reporter:

    Whether Philip, who has four children with the Queen and eight grandchildren, is contemplating a Chinese-style one-child policy for Britain or other, more radical ideas, remains unknown

    Accuse the man of not following his own advice -probably decades before he realized their could be a problem- and suggest he is looking for radical solutions when he hasn't said anything to that effect, but avoid commenting on whether he is actually right or wrong.

  6. That has NOTHING at all to do with the CPC's lack of libertarianism. The CPC is hopelessly authoritarian, teetering on the edge of fascism.

    90% of the time, comparing a group or idea to fascism or nazism means absolutely nothing. But it does provide slogans that make a the group or idea much less appealing at face value.

    -The "Islamofascist" regimes must be stomped out now!

    -Conservatives invaded Iraq, nazis invaded countries, they are clearly nazis!

    -Liberals want more government, fascists had large government, liberals are fascists! Also National Socialists have SOCIALIST right in there name! I mean come on!

    -Hitler was a vegetarian, etc.

  7. Oleg! Oleg! You can come back down now!

    Im starting to see Oleg as a mad prophet living on top of a mountain, periodically descending to spread the holy word while us normals are trying to decipher what he actually means.

    I say freedom of speech should be curtailed in only exceptional circumstances, i.e., violent pornography, child pronography, or words that can directly be shown to calling on people to commit a crime.

    This would be better, leaves much less room for interpretation and no room for an angry rant being interpreted as hate.

  8. Do they indeed? How do you figure that?

    see this previously posted link:

    http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=A...00a7829cb454ccf

    Smart people breed less and Dumb people breed more. Eventually the Smart people will dissappear and everybody will be dumb.

    Smart people, if they were truly smart, would breed more to avoid this...like dumb people. In fact, they'd breed so prodigiously that it would be the dumb people who would dissappear. But the smart people don't seem to understand that because they breed far less.

    It would seem that the 'dumb' people are actually the 'smart' people since they are the ones breeding more.

    Keep in mind when I say smart, I mean IQ (which is by no means 100% accurate but its the best thing we got).

    I dont know why intelligent people are breeding slower now, possibly because alot of them put their careers in front of having and raising children now. I also dont know why dumber people are breeding excessively, maybe because they have so many safety nets. It doesnt really matter, what matters is its going to be a slowly worsening problem.

    Health is another factor, medicine is a blessing but will also allow diseases and other problems related to genetics to pass on. I think this will be a problem but probably not as big, lets put it as a none issue for now.

    As far as welfare recipients, I cant find a study that suggests they actually have high IQ's, can you help me? Even if they did, to be on welfare is to suggest that you are, at the present time, having a hard time supporting yourself. How could having a child in such a situation possibly be anything but bad? For anyone including the tax payers?

  9. Brain Candy, been spending a bit too much time at Corrupt, I see? Trust me, I've been where you are - they will brainwash you and ruin your life. Stay away from there...

    I like some of their ideas and have been a fan for a while, ruin my life? How? They got interesting ideas and articles there, also I dont sense they are dogmatic about any of it.

  10. Approaching war from a dualistic perpective:

    "The United States must join Israel in a pre-emptive military strike against Iran to fulfill God’s plan for both Israel and the West… a biblically prophesied end-time confrontation with Iran, which will lead to the Rapture, Tribulation, and Second Coming of Christ." -Hagee

    LOL self fullfilling prophecy.

    When asked in outside of sermons he will give more realistic reasons for this view, but keep in mind this is whats at the heart of it, unless he is a manipulative fraud.

  11. We could have a huge, worldwide education program which would decrease population growth, but that would both be incredibly costly and their is no guarantee that it will be effective or we will be even wanted in most places. Also it does not take into consideration that intelligence stem from genetics as well as environment.

    I forgot something else here. Even if such a program was implemented and became hugely successful, we could only assume that along with our breeding habits we most likely bring in our consumption habits, so population problems are reduced but consumption problems multiply. D'oh!

  12. White Doors asked a very good question 'What problem?"

    Whats the problem here? That people have kids or that poor people have kids? If the problem is about overpopulation whats this horsebollocks about 'contributing to society'?

    Would it be okay to have kids and increase the worlds population as long as there is 'contributing' happening?

    Since smart people appear to breed less, I think these are connected and you cant really talk about one without the other.

    I dont think the population increasing indefinately is a good idea no matter what IQ you are or background you are from. But at the same time, given that smart people tend to have smart children, if we are going to implement population control it would be a good idea to work from the "ground up".

    Then you endorsed Olegs point that the foxes were running the hen-house...except you endorsed it on the grounds of his assertion that the genetic inferiors were somehow running the hen-house of the genetic superiors and thats wrong for some reason or other.

    I think he put it fairly well. The transition from rigid definitions of class wasn't a bad idea, but sometimes I think the capitalist system makes people rise to the top who shouldnt be there, and with dishonest intentions once they get there. But I wouldnt claim that earlier societies were immune to this. Also I might have been slightly joking.

    I think your argument isn't about overpopulation at all - but about genetics. People on welfare are inferior to those not on welfare so they should not be allowed to breed prodigiously because that will effect the quality of the gene pool.

    I won't even go into the fundemental inhumanity of the state denying folks the joy of having and raising children - be they poor or not.

    The arguement is about both things, but I wouldn't personally want a state that simply denied people the right to have children in general... but wouldnt it be allright to limit the amount of children less capable are aloud? Especially if they currently require government assistance? Immigration would probably need to be limited first in our specific case.

  13. What contributions have YOU made?

    Maybe we should retroactively abort YOU for having this inane idea?

    Who I am does not matter. I presented a few issues and suggested they are important along with a few possible solutions to them, this is not because i personally stand to gain from them outside of their beneficial effects on society as a whole.

    Hitler and Stalin had above average IQ's.

    Get it yet?

    I never claimed smart and capable people were incapable of cruelty, but at the same time people increasingly getting dumber within a society would eventually crush and destroy any civilisation. Why? Because they lack capababilities of smarter people to not only take care of themselves, but also tend to be more creative and forward thinking.

    I doubt it. You are fighting for a solution that is worse than the disease for a problem that does not exist.

    I am fighting for discussion for rational solutions to problems that do exist. We can argue about specifics, butpopulation is growing to unpresendented levels and more dumb then smart people are breeding. Even though growth rates may decrease, the population will still be rising indefinetly, unless we do something about it or hit a huge disaster.

    We could have a huge, worldwide education program which would decrease population growth, but that would both be incredibly costly and their is no guarantee that it will be effective or we will be even wanted in most places. Also it does not take into consideration that intelligence stem from genetics as well as environment.

    Canada specifically would benefit from stricter immigration laws, but just encouraging smarter and healthier people to breed more is a good idea in any situation.

  14. There are alot of dumb rich people you know.

    Yes, that is why I think IQ and health are the better measures then money.

    Look up some famous, rich and talented people. Look at where they came from, the odds that they overcame and think that under your totaliarian system they would have never been born. Jk Rawling for one. Shania Twain for another. You obviously have very limited knowledge to what you are speaking.

    Both of these people got rich from pandering to children and the pop form of country and western, they made important contributions how?

    Shocking that you could argue for such a suspension of fundamental human rights and you never even to bothered looking into the effects of it.

    I have, stop assuming things before providing good arguements.

  15. - The so-called revolutionary types killed all the intelligent and good people leaving the dregs - now after a generation , some of the dregs have risen to rule and they are not fit...same thing has happened in America - where the decendends of the robber barrons now sit in high positions - but do not have the genetic tools to rule as good kings - it's like the crooked hardware store owner who sold bootleg booze and took over the town - he is the frinking hardware guy in a suit - not a king...Getting back to the so-called over population problem as percieved by some. We have weapons dealers and oil merchants calling the shots...dullards with money and influence.

    I think you are my hero. Keep in mind that this is not so much an issue of destroying the planet, their may be undeniable damage to its ecosystems and natural beauty as developed since the dawn of time, but the planet will remain. It is more a question of human civilisations, and their sustainability, and the quality and joy of life within one.

  16. No it is not, it's practical. It ultimately doesnt matter if people need it or not. If people need it then they should be on it, and also since they are financially in need they definately shouldnt be thinking about having children.

    But thats just part of it, howabout the billions of dollars that keeps 3rd world countries breeding habits going strong? If they emigrate to here they, as a whole, use more resources and appear to continue to breed at large rates.

    I realize places like Canada might need them to keep their current population, but maybe our population needs to go down from what it is? Or maybe we need to turn the welfare system on its head and have more insentives for the "best" (healthy, intelligent) among us to outbreed the rest?

    If you disagree, explain how their is a better way to deal with this problems, or how these problems wont ultimately matter.

  17. Change the system so it does not reward this behaviour? Sure. take their fundamental rights away from them to be able to bear children??? NO WAY

    Again I could agree with that, but Im pretty sure seeing breeding as a "fundamental right" will eventually be a problem, especially since even without the welfare system they might still be outbreeding us. Though some offspring manage to work their way out of their system, even more are perpetuating it. I think limiting the breeding of welfare recipients to one child-if they are aloud any- would be a good way to reduce the size and need for it, as well as to make people second guess whether they want to go on it.

  18. I would agree they had these rights if they currently didnt depend on handouts. As it stands not only are they mainly dead weight, they are breeding at a faster rate.

    We could cry about the rights of people worldwide to do what they want while we support them, but if their is currently a problem and it is getting bigger, reality will kick our ass eventually.

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