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The crazy part, is am an effeminate man. 5 years ago, I was always jokingly called gay. I love scented candles, colorful dress shirts, love baking and apparently this firmly put me in a closet. My wife is more masculine than me, but of course is very girly in how she dresses. Where my "manness" shows, in that I earn triple her salary, make sure she is well taken care of even though she can stand on her own, and would be willing to give my life to protect her with zero hesitation. I was raised to protect the women and what I love, by all means necessary. I scared off 5 assailants who attacked my sister when we were younger, with a shoe in hand, and chasing after them, wanting to knock them out. My parents were proud of me. Now, I think such behavior would be scolded. Now, am borderline toxic masculine. IE if my wife says something really dumb, I will roast her for it. She does the same to me. We love logic, but me doing so now is bad. Calling out bad logic is bad. If I am a threat, scented candles and all, manhood or what we knew it as, is f****ed.

Think about it. You feminize men, you remove any bit of social resistance. If you think China and Russia's ambitions would be thwarted by youth who would be sent into mental health downward spirals by being misgendered, you have lost your mind. Heck, they wouldn't need weapons anymore. Its a concerted attempt to eliminate manhood or what it used to stand for, and popularize girlhood. Heck you can even get multi million dollar endorsements for it. You remove gender, and teach vague gender rules and you create a shame in questioning it, and are essentially eroding a person's ability to question. It becomes a fear. You then simply have to continuously move the goal posts to fully suppress it. You control one's mind, you control their bodies.

I wish more women called this out. I don't want to pee with a woman standing next to me any more than I would want to shower as a woman, with what physically looked like a man next to me.

The crazy part, is that they are protesting her stating how uncomfortable she was having a woman with a penis undressing in the same locker room as her. That he was an afterthought with men in swimming, and a record shatterer in less of two years of transition. Like, she is seen as the unreasonable one in this situation. Anyone saying that cancel culture doesn't exist, should look at the lengths activists have gone through to snuff out her voice.

You can't reason based on logic with people like this. If a trans person is allowed to believe they can breastfeed, and it improves their mental health, we should let them. That they have periods. What if one thinks she is pregnant. At what point does playing into things, become more harmful than good? IE her having to do a prostate check to avoid undetected cancer, or if she didn't have bottom surgery, to check her testicles? Or do you do a pretend "cervical" check, by sticking your vaginal speculum in her butt? At what point do you cross the line of ridiculous? It seems to be moving every day.

Yes. The beauty of gaslighting.

But they demonstrably speak two languages. How can you demonstrably be a biological woman, with a penis between your legs? Biological woman, indicates the parts you have that allow you to bear children. Of course, defects, age and other issues may prevent this, but you cannot ignore this. Like the lunatics feeling a biological man can breastfeed. Can have a period. Not intersex. Biologically male. Nobody has the guts to say anything. They just laugh behind closed doors. Soon enough, me saying the above, could become illegal. This is what they are calling progress.

You mean like Manon Rheaume? She likely would be slower, smaller and less powerful than the men. Don't take my words, Google it. She didn't remotely have a chance at making the team. She was not taking anything away from the men, as she would barely be able to compete with them. If anything, signing her in the name of diversity would be diluting the skill pool it takes to make the NHL, as likely there would be people better than her being cut. I mean, you could do this, but her getting lit up for 5-6 goals per game because she doesn't fill out the net, would have her cut in no time. Beauty of this league. You're measured by your skillset. Same as throwing a woman in the men's jails. She would be at risk. Not them. Lia Thomas, less than two years before shattering records in NCAA swimming with biological women, was competing with men. With the men she ranked in the 400's at best. Marginal swimmer. With the women in less than two years, was shattering records. Not tenths of a second. Full seconds. The best biological women could barely tie her. Its not the same ball game. Anyone stating otherwise, are thinking emotionally and not looking at the data. Equality is a level playing field. Men are stronger and faster, so have segregated leagues once puberty sets in. This isn't sexism. My wife is tiny compared to me. She is of average height for women. I am slightly taller than the average man at 6'. It doesn't matter, I have mauled women as tall as me in hockey. One of which I took it easy on, until she called me a p**** for doing so. Okay, I thought. Yes its recreational play, but I quickly sent her a message, knocking her off the puck hard several times, then slewfooting her and knocking her to the ice, to her protesting my rough housing and all of a sudden pulling her woman card. I took it easy on her for a reason. If a woman feels she can compete with a man, all the power to her, but many have tried and failed. This isn't an insult. Its a fact. Now, if women were biologically stronger and faster than men, and the tables turned. Say, a WNBA star joined the NBA and immediately scored 50 points a game, and forced men to shower in the same shower as her and any cat calling or looks or words would have them being transphobic, they would be equally entitled to protest.

Being trans is now seen as wearing gold earrings vs silver. What's the difference, right? Earrings are earrings.

To me, if it's fair game to hide your transness I feel its fair game to hide my divorce, my financial status (especially if bankrupt) and other things that only mildly affect you. Heck even a drinking problem, as long as I don't black out and take it out of you for making me a lukewarm sandwich when I asked for a warm one. There is a difference.

The penis is still functional afterwards. In fact you reduce the chances of some STD, the penis is easier to clean and several other benefits. This is a far cry for the mutilation girls undergo in some developing countries where functional parts are severed from the body, in incredibly primitive ways which along with losing function can introduce infection and other issues. Circumcision is a choice, and I don't understand how its mutilation. You do understand the definition of mutilation, correct?

Millennial women find themselves single more often, because far more are painful to be around. I dated a couple "woke" women, and just felt that approaching a first date with hostility isn't a smart move. IE a woman asking me at a packed Starbucks, if I liked a woman who cooked for me. I told her I appreciated one who did, and didn't get the chance to finish my train of thought before she cut me off. She went off on women's rights, and how women weren't put on earth to cook and clean for men, which is true, but again--the woke tend to violently push forth their agenda, with little room for dialogue. Everyone was now staring at us. She made a scene when none was needed. Was reactionary when intelligence would have made her inquisitive before passing judgement. Once I got to speak, I told her my mom was a chef, and had taught me to cook, bake, etc I often cooked for women I dated, but appreciated when one cooked for me. All women who have cooked for me, were never asked to once. They chose to, and in appreciation, I did dishes. The give and take that should be prevalent in a relationship. That stopped her rant, but the kicker, is she had a great time on the date..was shocked when I cut things off. O_o Teach kids accountability and you essentially teach them self awareness. This is replaced for activism, and narssisism for many. Am not surprised so many are lonely and finding no takers.

Humans are also much smarter, don't sniff each others butts in public, and don't defecate there either, unless on drugs, to name several few key differences.

Notice though how you can differentiate between left and right handed. You pointing this out doesn't make you bigoted? My being left hand used to get me discriminated. I was reminded it wasn't good, as a child. Eventually we socially accepted that being lefthanded isn't a bad thing, even gladly adjusting tools and musical instruments for such people. Am firmly against discrimination against someone for being trans. Like you said. They are human. But to tell people, that they aren't trans or left handed by your take. They are right handed, is lunacy. You don't fight discrimination by forcing people to believe a trans woman and biological woman are identical. They demonstrably are not, and will create fierce opposition. People like Riley Gaines being assaulted by a trans woman no less, for openly stating she was forced to shower with a trans woman, is not progress. Women being petrified to speak up, and thus being silenced at the expense of their rights after generations of advances for them, is not progress. You're discriminating against women to make trans women feel better about themselves. I am firmly against this, too. Sorry, but my wife will never be a chest feeder, or a menstruating person. She also isn't cis. She is a woman, and there was once upon a time, where such a role, was revered in society. If this makes me a TERF, another term coined to suppress opposition, I will take it gladly.

Maybe something is wrong with me, by all means. I am incredibly upfront. What you see, is what you get. I don't sugar coat. Some women love it, some hate it, but one thing is for certain, you will know where you stand and where I stand from the onset. I don't understand how to lie. I am straight up. I don't even wear hats as have a receding hairline. I just trim short, and own it proudly. Some women have told me the confidence is sexy, and I think the same would ring true with a trans woman who owned her transness and just knew she was sexy and badass. I don't worry about if a woman will like me. I am more concerned if she is worth my time. Don't call me, I'll call you. Own it.

I agree with most of your post, but finding out my significant other was a hitman likely would be as much a deal breaker as them telling me they are trans. I mean, I stopped dating a woman for telling me she was an alcoholic who hadn't drunk in months. I have dated women with serious substance abuse problems, and was too old and had pushed that lifestyle too far behind me to even remotely rekindle it. I date a woman, expecting a biological woman, just like I expect her to be standing on her two feet. If she acted like she had a job, and then told me she was unemployed and homeless I am sorry, am not a crutch. I see this closely to be being heterosexual. I make no apologies about it. I also like to be attracted to the women I date. I get shallow with mine, in that if by date 30, she popped out her full dentures, am sorry, but that's a lot. We are normalizing lying by omission which to me is just as serous as lying. I will support you in your times of need in the relationship, but to pick you up and dust you off from the onset like this is a fairytale movie? Yeah, OK. Of course, most things can be told later, but certain things should be known up front. So many hope you trap you, and grow on you like mildew. To me, that is the most toxic means of starting a relationship, as it's started on false pretense.

He technically is, if your screen name rhymes with antifa.

Its a trend. Harder to fight, when it's drilled into your head from kindergarten. Some see it as trendy. When I was in high school, trendy, was being a skater, preppy, jock. Or worst case, being goth, and dressing all black... Now trendy, is lobbing off body parts, or questioning what gender you are. Usually you could grow out of your teenage years. Harder to do, if you cut off your breasts.

In today's world, no. Its to be taken at face value.

I was on the fence on you being a troll. Thanks for confirming it.

Because both sheets are blank, showing lofty complaints, to more reasonable ones. I will stick to this until you can demonstrate the parchment is not blank. Your meme is weak. Humor is funnier when spot on regarding reality. Just a thought. I won't add any further replies to this. But will give you an A for effort. Thanks for trying.

To me, its like dating someone who had a past as a hitman. They served 12 years for what they were caught for, but mean you no harm and never hurt you. To me, this isn't an elephant in a room type of omission. Its an aircraft carrier in a swimming pool. Or a violent sex offender that is reformed. Withholding this to me, is a level of deceit that to me would end a relationship.

Want me to show you the footage? The sheet was blank. You see both sides on the ground. To me, you are saying cancel culture is alive and well. Just not as bad. To me this is funny.

But see, she would be a biological woman. No coin toss on whether you had a third leg or not to worry about. Hence her panic in setting that record straight, once he flipped out. This isn't about getting laid. He is hetero. Talk all the socially acceptable terms you like. He felt that the person in front of him, was a man. Albeit an insanely good looking one. He wasn't trying to find out what had been removed or not. Because he again, is heterosexual. So, she should never disclose? What if she didn't get bottom surgery, and he gets a Jack in the box expecting something else. Isn't it fair game that he would feel something around the lines of: "what the eff?" Or is this a package deal. You took it home, deal with it? No take backsies. The cloth seat Toyota cost more, but is more reliable than the Lexus. Think of the positives. Right? No, if we are both dating and building something, honesty is expected. Not owed. If you date with zero expectations that's on you. I have standards. No. Jusfified to be disappointed. Very justified. I don't care if I hurt her feelings. We get hot and heavy and off come the underwear and then..*boiiiing*. She's taking a cab ride home then and there. On her coin.

You're right. Its deception. A lie. Kind of like a woman posing on a dating website as an "athletic" woman. Thin face. Gorgeous. You meet, the rest of her looks like honey boo boo's mom. The deception, is you brought friends with, as she "is gorgeous". So more of a shot to your pride you will never live down if anyone finds out. If she guilt trips you, even worse.